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sometimes life gives you lemons. throw them back.

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on August 24, 2019 - 5:48pm

My ex and i have had a rocky relationship since we broke up, even after both of us agreeing to wanting to be friends. I went to the first football game of our high school's football season yesterday and he went with me. We were kinda hanging out, he was mostly silent the whole time. I saw some other friends and went to say hi. He didnt follow and when i turned around to go back he wasnt there. I saw him later, on his phone sitting by himself. Thats how the tailgate party went up until the game started. I went to get tickets and He said oh i dont have any money. I had already told him that i had enough money for me to get a drink and get into the game. I had already gotten a drink. When he told me he didnt have money, i got slightly frustrated with him. He said, why are you mad at me. I have been very confused about my own feelings lately, so i havent had many clear emotions. I told him that and i continue to tell him these things. Last night we got into a large argument and i ended up crying for at least 6 minutes at the game. He left after i got my ticket and i was fine with that. Then he texts me saying im locked out of my house and he went backk to the game. he told me he got in saying he was with the JROTC "spirit team" that basically goes to games and represents the JROTC and support the team. He had not signed up for the team so he lied to get into the game. I was angry with him and he knew that. When he found where i was sitting (with my friend and the guy she's dating {the guy i like}), and he decided to come and try to sit by me even though i was furious with him at this point. He comes and i completely ignore his presence, pretending he wanst there. He got mad at me and i slowly leaned over and told my friend's bf to get him away from me because i knew he was really good with words. I had alredy told him about my ex and my situation. When he left i just kinda put my head on my friends shoulder. when my ex and the guy (we will call him d) got back, my ex was furious. I ignored him completely until he stormed off, leaving. He continued to text me for upwards of half an hour. I replied saying i told him we were through and that i do not want to talk about us ever having a relationship again because he just cant leave it alone. Another thing, he started dating someone the day we broke up so that was a big hit to my whole self being. He confirmed this and i found out from d that he talked to him when he was getting my ex away from me and my ex told him that He had been "talking as a friend" to someone who i have known and who i used to consider my personal friend.

We argued over text for half an hour until i just decided no and told him i dont want to talk to him anymore. He continued to text me and i ended up sending al caps "NO STOP TALKING TO ME I DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU"
He continued to text me unti i gave my friend his number and she told him not to text me anymore or she would make him stop and/or call the cops. He was legitimately harassing me at that point and when he started getting angry at her she cussed him out and He ended up texting me "i hope you can find peace"

two hours later "im sorry i made you cry...." I have not responded r even looked at any texts. Im so done with him at this point and i dont even want to be his friend and i conveyed that so

I feel powerful now and im perfectly fine with not communicating with him at this point.

Im actually fine so yeah.
:)

P.S. sorry its so long i just wanted to tell ya'll..