"Waiting for the guy to make the first move isn't old-fashioned. You want a man who will take charge. A man who asks YOU out. It's not old-fashioned, it's waiting to see if he's the right guy. When you're house is flooded, he should be able to get the wrench and fix whatever is leaking. You don't stand there saying 'Get the wrench! Now, go over there, and fix it!' The way to see if he can take charge, is to step back, and let him do some things himself. He should be able to do things without you telling him to."
Merf merf, this can explain my failed relationships.