I don't know what to do.

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I don't know what to do.

Well, it's about my sister. She is very insecure and needy, and I love her. She is very nice when she feels like it but lately she never even notices how I feel. She always tells me to Skype her(she's in college) just to encourage her. Then when we have nothing to say to each other I ask why she called and she tells me just to get encouragement. I love her and i want to encourage her, but I have a life too. I hurt to.I need to be encouraged and talk about my life. It's always about her and her dreams and her goals and whenever I try to interject on my opinions or dreams she tells me I'm in high school and none of my dreams now matter cause they will change within the next 4 years. Then when she asked to be encouraged on her singing(she's a singer a pretty good one, but she doesn't do anything with singing) I told her about what Gerard said that "Talent can only take you so far, it's your view on the world that can make a difference" and I told her to not be full of shit and have a message. She told me I was being to deep and she didn't know what her message is. She just writes about crap that she hasn't even gone through. Yeah well I guess what I'm asking is what should I do. I love her, but I can't keep giving her everything, especially when she doesn't appreciate it. Sooner or later I will give her all my positivity and be left with nothing. What should I do?