Scared

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Scared

My boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago and now one of my other friends wants to go out with me, but I don't know if I feel the same way. I'm still in love with my ex and I don't know what to do. I want to go out with this other guy but I'm not sure if it's the right time, I did tell him that but I'm afraid that if I keep him waiting then he'll lose interest in me and move on, but I also want to wait around for my ex. I just don't want to lose another friend because of a failed relationship. My ex wants nothing more to do with me but at the same time I want him back, I guess I'm just used to being treated like crap that I expect it. But now I have a nice guy who said he'll treat me right but that's what my ex said and he ended up leaving me just as I paid for him to come away with me. That's £250 I'll never see again -.-''
I want to give this other guy a chance but I don't think I can go through another relationship again and I'm scared in case I do go out with him and then my ex wants me back. I don't know what to do