Too long

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Too long

Feels like forever since I've been on here... Anywho, I know that it's all old news now but... Were people actually genuinely surprised to find out that Mikey was a cheater? He's been married twice, you know... Going on to wife number 3, if that's even still going on... I wasn't surprised one bit when the news spread about the cheating. But in his defense, he's a big boy and he's going to live his life the way he chooses to. He must've really been unhappy and crying out for help; most men do that sort of thing when their marriages are in trouble. Ppl do it all of the time, even my ex-husband. Unfortunately, mine also decided to shoot me instead of fixing things. That was very unfortunate, because I was more than willing to try making things work but I wasn't given that option. I don't blame my ex entirely though; I was equally to blame for having cheated as well. My reasoning was a cry for help though. I genuinely wanted to make things work out; I was willing to forgive and to look for forgiveness as well. I still love my ex; we have a child together and for that I'll always be grateful and will always be connected to him in some way. I'm just thankful to still be here. To still be alive and have the ability to live my life how I choose to. And I know not to make the mistake of cheating again. If I ever find someone that means that much to me again, I will be sure to establish and maintain great communication so that the past does not repeat itself. One of the most important things in every relationship is Honesty and I will not be afraid or hesitate to let my significant other know exactly how I feel or what I am thinking at any given time, especially if/when asked.