Last year in October she had to move to another town which is half an hour away from my town. It was all really sad and her friend whom she knows for 13 years, so basically all her life, was organising a wonderful goodbye-party for her, all her friends were invited and it was really cute.
She promised us that whenever she planned going to our town she would tell us immediately so we could meet.
She had found new friends in her area but we still managed to keep in touch and to meet, even though it sometimes seemed that she didn’t do her best to make the meetings happen which was really annoying.
Before the summerholidays she promised us we would meet often but she would hardly find time for us. I met her once, my other best friend did not see her at all.
This was the time when she started being really uninterested in our friendship and she never called nor texted me nor came online so we could talk.
When she was online she didn’t start a conversation but when we (my bf and I) did, she said “i love you but i have no time, let’s talk somewhen else, i miss you”. And the next days she wouldn’t be online at all.
Like two days before I went to Poland she texted me “can I call you this evening? i miss you so much” and I was happy and said “yes of course, I miss you, too”. She didn’t call me at all.
When I came back home a full week later I got a text message from her saying “sry”. I was confused and asked “why are you apologising”, she answered “because I didn’t call you”. I replied “That was a whole week ago, why do you come up with this now? anyway, I don’t have much money left on my phone please come in facebook and we talk”. And of course she said “I can’t I’m at *insert name here*’s”. That friend of her lives in my town. She was in my town and she didn’t tell me even though she promised she would.
And everytime we tried to talk to her on facebook or skype she was like “sorry i don’t have time” but she would never start a conversation herself.
Then in the last week of holiday my best friend saw her walking around in our town with a friend of her and that girl’s dog from her car after her piano lesson. The girl she was with is a really arrogant girl who thinks she’s soo beautiful, talented and better than anyone else. (She is also a hipster with autoplay on her blog but whatever). And my “best friend” once said to me that if she wouldn’t be friends with her already she wouldn’t befriend with her today as well.
It’s just good to know that this girl is more important than us.
Now the holidays are over and my best friend and I are really pissed with her because she didn’t talk to us for a week and we did not try to make contact again because all we would hear or see was “I don’t have time”.
But she always has time to like stupid sites and pictures on facebook. Or go for a walk with the stupid Chihuahua of her friend.
Today my best friend heard two friends of her talking about her. She didn’t even talk to them. One of them was pissed at her, too but the other one was rather worried. It was the one who organised the goodbye-party for her and was friends with her for 13 years. 13 years of friendship and this girl just ignores her without a reason.
I feel more sorry for her than for myself, seriously.
And we found out that she was in our town for a whole week but didn’t feel the need to inform anyone of us. She was in our town and writes text messages saying “I miss you” but makes no attempts to actually make contact and meet us.
When I heard that I was more pissed than ever at her and decided to talk to her on facebook and test her.
Our conversation:
Me: “hi”
Her: “hi”
Me: “how are you?”
Her: “So-so. you?”
Me: “fine.”
Her: “That’s nice.”
Me: “What have you been up to lately?”
Her: “School. you?”
Me: “work. how were your holidays?”
Her: “Mhm how was it? My holidays were okay, yours?”
Me: “exhausting. Mine too. Pity that our meeting didn’t work but you probably have hardly been to our town, right?”
Her: “I’ve been there from time to time. (FROM TIME TO TIME MY ASS SHE HAS BEEN HERE FOR A WHOLE WEEK) Yeah we will catch up on that!!!!!”
Me: “You bet….”
Her: “Everything OK with you?”
Me: “Everything’s wonderful.”
Her: “Nice.”
Me: “With you, too?”
Her: “Well…”
Me: “Do you want to talk about it”
Her: “Do you want me to cry”
Me: “Is this question for real or what”
Her: “Yes actually”
Me: “Are you serious? -.- Of course, I love seeing you cry more than anything else, sure.”
She didn’t answer.
Me: “Whatever, if you don’t want to talk about it keep it for yourself. But I have to go now. Ciao.”
Her: “-.- Yes be mad as well. Bye.”
I went offline then and went shopping with my mum. I had the feeling she would call me but I wasn’t sure since she never made any contact.
When I came home my sister told me that she called and I had to call her back.
I didn’t call her back. “I didn’t have time!”. -.-
I’m so fucking tired of running after her. I don’t want to have to remind her that I’m supposed to be her friend. She may have problems but I told her a million times I’m there for her and even if she didn’t like to tell me about it she could have at least said it instead of just ignoring me, ignoring most of her friends here. I’m allergic to this kind of behaviour and I’m fucking sick of it.
This is not a friendship I want and this is not a friendship I need. I don’t need fake friends who only come to me when they need something.
We have done so much for her and I was willing to do almost everything for her and then she just shits on me.
Fuck you.
I’m not even sad about it, I’m just really angry and disappointed.
