Okay, I don't want to come of big-headed, but I think a girl has a crush on me. Before you start rolling your eyes, I just want to say that her friends confirm it, but in a jokey manner so I'm just confused. And I'm a girl. I also flirt. I know "the signs". But, in this case, I don't think I want to see "the signs".
It's flattering, don't get me wrong. And I also have NOTHING against lesbians or gay people. and to the fact that she's into girls. But I'm into guys and, first and foremost, she is my FRIEND. We're in the same band and she's a fantastic violinist, I don't know if I should keep pretending I don't know her intentions or not. I keep playing dumb, but I know that one of these days, she's gonna want a definite answer from me. It's happened before to the previous girls she's courted. And now, I'm not doing such a fantastic job at playing it cool. There's a different energy when I'm around her. It's fantastic and refreshing, but also awkward and terrifying. I want someone to cut through the tension of our conversations and save me, but I also want to be left alone with her all the time, just singing and making music.
Help?
