So Much For Friends

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So Much For Friends

Everyone has at least one best friend, right? Well, I thought I did. My "best friend" never tells me anything anymore and blows me off and never wants to hang out anymore. If I ask her a question, she answers but it's always avoiding the ACTUAL answer. So, would it makes sense that she's not my best friend anymore, truly? She's more of an aquantince the way she keeps acting. I'm probably gonna give her a couple weeks and if she doesn't change any, no more friendship. I'm getting tired of it. I feel as though i have to hide behind a mask because of the things she's doing. I hide what i really feel in front of her. I act all happy in front of her but other than that i'm angry and depressed mostly becuse of her.

>>>>>>>>>>>Bri XOXO

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i never really lost a friend cuz of that but there were times when they acted all distant for no reason. do what i did. just asked em whats up. fiind out why they are acting like that and try to fix it. but i do hide my feelings aroung most ppl. there is really one person i tell whats really going on. no one else knows anything. i just look happy when im really just a tortured soul looking for help......

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LEO

I lost my best friend too, we're still friends, but we're like auckward, ex-best friends, you know what I mean? Don't sweat it, I haven't had a best friend for 6 or 7 years now and its made me a lot more independent. But I would still prefer a close friend, I just can't find any right now. I'm sorry you're going through this, I know how painful it can be, but the sad truth is people change and you can't force something back to the way it was. Maybe you should tell her how you feel. A friendship is pretty much based on communication, and if one of you isn't willing to fill the gap, your freindship won't be willing to survive. I hope it works out:)