So Long To All My Friends

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So Long To All My Friends

Ok so I just need to write this down. I think one of my close friends misunderstands the phrase - "Treat others how you would want to be treated." The meaning being that if you want people to be nice to you, you must first be nice to them. However, I'm 99% sure she interprets it as - if someone hurts you first, you can hurt them. In the exact same, painfully obvious way, hurting other people along the road.
Said persons best friend basically betrayed her trust. So what does she do? Betrays her trust again using someone else who is also inadvertently betraying someone else's trust. Basically, in a situation that needed to involve 2 people (one of which didn't want to be involved in the first place and so the whole situation wouldn't have existed if the first person wasn't so... ruthless) there is now involved a grand total of 4 people. Two pairs of - now ex - best friends. Then it's a race to see who can get the most people on their side first. Except it's just one side that's playing this messed up game! I'm sick of it but she won't stop. She won't stop talking about it and arguing about it and bringing it up and won't get over it! It happened 6 months ago can you not just forget about it and move on oh my goodness.

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