Fake it like you matter, that's a lie we can both keep...

Okay. Here's the thing. Yeah. He made a mistake. And yeah, I'm disappointed in him. But I still love him. He's still Mikey. He fucked up big time, but he's human. People make mistakes. And maybe him, and Alicia will work things out. Maybe not. But I'm sure he feels bad enough. We don't need to make it any worse by saying nasty things about him on the internet (I'm talking we as fans, the whole collective group). I still love him. That's what family is. Loving someone because of their flaws, and despite their fuck ups.
Give the guy a break. It's possibly the worst thing that will ever happen, and it's VERY disappointing, but the band, and the fans will get through this. We always do.